Sometimes the best person to give encouragement, love, a listening ear and comfort is no other person than yourself. Since, only you know what exactly you mean and what you are trying to express. No other person in this world will fully understand you and can comprehend you the way you know yourself the best.
We are not even on the same channel! You are tuned to Channel A and that person is tuned to Channel B. You could be looking at this person but no matter how you communicated your thoughts, both of you are not even connected! Considering that you could have done your best to speak as clearly as you can and expect the other person to understand regardless of how long that person knew you and should understand you, the result is the same. Only you know what you are talking about since both of you have different vibrations. You just need to do your best in explaining and let everything fall into place. We do not need to be upset or felt unappreciated because of the obvious differences.
Give yourself a pat on your shoulder when you did good and correct yourself also when you did bad. We do not need someone else to tell us if we are good or bad. We all have a moral compass within each and everyone of us who is our Higher Self (s) that direct us, guide us and prompt us through our conscience.
It doesn’t matter how others look at you or if what they think of you makes any difference in who you are. You are who you are not according to how others want you to be or how they think of you. It doesn’t matter also what they say to us, behave towards us because we are who we are according to who we are, not because of what they say or do to us. If others treat you badly, mistaken you or even insult you, you will still remain to be good because you are good. You do not become bad and treat them badly because of what they did or say to you. As long as we are doing good and know that we are good, we just need to answer to ourselves and God or some may call it Divine Source. What we reap is really what we sow, be it good or bad.
Each of us will draw lessons to ourselves according to what we think and act. We just need to do the “right thing” and the universe will act according to the universal laws to give us lessons and subsequent tests or challenges will cease or continue according to what you chose to think and act. We will only be responsible for what situation that came before us and for us to react either in a good way or bad way. Others will draw their own lessons in relation to how they think and act also. So, we do not need to take things into our own hands and punish someone by treating them back the same way they treated us lest we attract lessons to ourselves because of that!
Everything lies in our hands. There is no magic. We are ultimately the ones who think our own thoughts, do our own intentions and actions. This earth experience is a virtual reality where everyone else is acting and playing out the course according to you! You are the director and player of your own reality. If you want to navigate this earth experience skillfully, learn from your own mistakes. Your mistake is the best mentor and guide for you. We fall but we did not fail. We will ponder and contemplate on each fall and rise from the failure. We strike out again setting the right intentions and actions will be followed up. When we are fully aligned in our intention and action, we will activate the Law of Attraction into our lives. Abundance, Peace, Love and Wisdom awaits you.